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Apart from the fact that it is illegal: your kid will resent you. Sure, they might grow up all fine, but do not think that resentment will ever go away.



Really? I was spanked in this manner twice (that I remember) and I don't resent my parents.


I was spanked and I love my parents. My approval ratings with my children don't influence whether I'm willing to hit them.


Apologies, let me clarify. I'm not trying to justify spanking. I'm arguing that the occasional spanking from loving parents doesn't cause the horricific long term psychological damage everyone seems to think it does. A couple of spankings over an entire childhood, while an arguably poor parental decision, does not equate to child abuse.

Edit: softer tone and spelling




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