I don't understand all this drama. My kids have reached teenage without many horrors or fights between any of us, and I think that we're all pretty normal.

Seems like a different situation if Mom and Dad are not on the same page and completely unwilling to cooperate with each other.

That seems to be a mum and dad problem though, the kids may merely be collateral...

Sure but the kids are going to catch on and be unhappy, eventually.

Yeah, I believe you :) I'll with that in 10 years.