I might be wrong, but it looks to me you lack confidence.
Every time that happens do anything outside of your comfort zone.
In professional context: Learn a new programming language, get familiar with a new framework, study fundamental CS.
In social context: Go out more, talk to ladies if you're guy, talk to boys if you're girl.
I sense in your case you're dealing with passioned/opinionated people and you should take constructive criticism and advance yourself. But don't take shit from them.
Have your own opinion on things even if it's not the right one. I love reasonably opinionated conversations because I can learn new from those if I am wrong or incompetent in certain areas.
In the end you don't owe them anything and they don't owe you anything (aside from money).
Think of your job as a process of you helping the company with your talent and time. Move on if it's not fun for you and you don't learn anything new.
I really appreciate your feedback. I don't lack confidence, and happily accept constructive comments from my coworkers. The thing I'm having trouble with is my coworkers treating me like I'm inexperienced and untrained (both untrue). They want me to always trust everything they say without question, but don't want to give my suggestions any consideration. If I discover I'm wrong, I readily admit this and adopt the correct thinking. If they're wrong, they belittle me.
What I like about your comment is that it reminds me that I don't need to get bent out of shape about my coworkers problems. If they aren't good at accepting feedback, they're the ones who aren't learning and growing. I can just keep on progressing on my own until I find an opportunity to work somewhere with a more healthy environment.
I sense in your case you're dealing with passioned/opinionated people and you should take constructive criticism and advance yourself. But don't take shit from them.
Have your own opinion on things even if it's not the right one. I love reasonably opinionated conversations because I can learn new from those if I am wrong or incompetent in certain areas.
In the end you don't owe them anything and they don't owe you anything (aside from money).
Think of your job as a process of you helping the company with your talent and time. Move on if it's not fun for you and you don't learn anything new.