This is a good question. Tabd does a few things for security:
* You must be friends on Tabd to send a tab. Standard friend request style. Thus you can block people who send tabs you don't want.
* If you spam a tab, (ie send the same tab over and over), Tabd will only deliver that tab once until the receiver actually opens it.
* Everything sent over https
* Url flagging functionality - You can set Tabd to temporarily not open NSFW tabs.
If there are more security concerns, please voice them! I'm definitely trying to make this app as secure as possible. While I've done a lot, I'm sure there's more that can be done!