You can spin as hard as you want, but the fact remains that people with families move to the suburbs for what they see as quality of life reasons.
Besides crime, people want to have yards for their kids to play in, rather than some littered public park full of drunks and discarded hypodermic needles.
They want their kids to be able to have bedrooms of their own.
They want to own a car (with the concommitant freedom to travel as they wish, when they wish) without paying outrageous parking fees (if parking is even available).
They want to have a kitchen and dining room for family gatherings.
They want any number of things that are either exorbitantly expensive or flat unobtainable in urban environments.
The key takeaway here is that you don't get to choose for other people.
They move to the suburbs because that's where they want to live.
I realize that this conflicts with your opinion on how people ought to live, but that's how it is. Sorry.
Besides crime, people want to have yards for their kids to play in, rather than some littered public park full of drunks and discarded hypodermic needles.
They want their kids to be able to have bedrooms of their own.
They want to own a car (with the concommitant freedom to travel as they wish, when they wish) without paying outrageous parking fees (if parking is even available).
They want to have a kitchen and dining room for family gatherings.
They want any number of things that are either exorbitantly expensive or flat unobtainable in urban environments.
The key takeaway here is that you don't get to choose for other people.
They move to the suburbs because that's where they want to live.
I realize that this conflicts with your opinion on how people ought to live, but that's how it is. Sorry.