can't reply to OP.
I'm amazed by the lack of humanity in some of the comments that came up.
I can understand if someone is too weak to handle it or the disease is too disturbing that it makes a relationship impossible, but this looks like people talking about other persons as products.
I wonder what will the OP do when in a relationship he ever has an accident or something that turns him into poor relationship material? would he break up with her. would he try to keep her as a girlfriend and think she was a sucker if she didn't leave?
You're not showing "humanity" if you stick with someone in a new relationship upon discovering a mental disorder. It's a personal choice; someone making a different choice doesn't lack humanity.
And once children are involved, it is not just about you. Plus, you're bringing that person not only into your life but into your family.
Here is something: what if your feelings change because of this? Should you stay, just for the sake of demonstrating your humanity to the world?
Oh, right, it's okay to break up because of changing feelings, because those are human.
