The OP was asking what to do when these are a given:
1. You work hard and long hours and you enjoy it.
2. You also NEED to spend time with family who already perceive that you are not spending enough time with them.
What do you do?
My response was to this scenario and this scenario alone. How to "balance" that. Your response on the other hand assumes that that you can impose (or have the right to suggest) fundamental compromises on an individual's life-style.
The OP was asking what to do when these are a given:
1. You work hard and long hours and you enjoy it. 2. You also NEED to spend time with family who already perceive that you are not spending enough time with them.
What do you do?
My response was to this scenario and this scenario alone. How to "balance" that. Your response on the other hand assumes that that you can impose (or have the right to suggest) fundamental compromises on an individual's life-style.