I think he uses "unfair", not meaning that he is ashamed, but rather meaning that his daughter won the ovarian lottery. There's no special morality or justice that his daughter will have a relatively easy life, it's just luck.
On the flip side, there're people out there who will be telling his daughter her circumstances are profoundly unfair because other people are even more advantaged than she is.
>>There's no special morality or justice that his daughter will have a relatively easy life, it's just luck.
Actually thinking this way will leave the person where they are. There is absolutely no doubt that luck exists. But what sort of logic is this to justify your failure with some one else's luck.