> "why should geographic location dictate my salary relative to my peers?"
It doesn't. Your unwillingness to relocate does.
Everyone has their own reasons for where they're willing to look for work and why. But those reasons, your reasons, have a price tag attached. To you, your reasons + your salary is equivalent to a SV salary. (Else you'd relocate.)
Similarly, companies who are unwilling to allow remote workers and/or choose not to build remote teams aren't paying more because of their location. They're paying more because they value having their employees at their location and that value is greater (to them) than the difference in SV salaries vs the midwest.
It doesn't. Your unwillingness to relocate does.
Everyone has their own reasons for where they're willing to look for work and why. But those reasons, your reasons, have a price tag attached. To you, your reasons + your salary is equivalent to a SV salary. (Else you'd relocate.)
Similarly, companies who are unwilling to allow remote workers and/or choose not to build remote teams aren't paying more because of their location. They're paying more because they value having their employees at their location and that value is greater (to them) than the difference in SV salaries vs the midwest.