Indeed, it is arguably more of a concern for women who are more educated and thus more "equal" in relationships with men. A worry among my ambitious female friends is getting stuck in a relationship where they are both the primary caregiver children and the primary breadwinner. And it's not an idle concern. Society pushes the role of primary caregiver on women. I'm father of the year when people find out I take the night feedings, but my wife gets nothing but criticism for not breast feeding, for the kid not being sufficiently bundled up, for the kids bottle not being capped while in the stroller cup holder (this happened today).
Damn people. Our one was off warm milk very early, weened herself at 3 months old, and hates hats. Try telling old biddies that she isn't cold, hates hates and prefers cold milk. Keep on keeping on.
Edit: And that reads like I'm competing with you. I'm not, because that just as bad. Remembering the loud comments and idiocy of strangers makes me a touch wild.
