Hard things shouldn't remain undone, nor should they be forgotten.

You're trying to handwave over the fact that you're accepting something instead of dealing with it temporarily.

And if you're doing that, you've already lost, you just haven't admitted it to yourself.

Don't you get it? Here, right here and right now, is where we're having a conversation about what we want to value. And you're on the side that says we should still value it, and trying to excuse yourself by saying we're not having all of the other conversations.

But we are. Just not here.