I'm an American who has "spent enough time running around the world" to see what a farce this is, and I've settled in a non-US country which is, in my opinion, vastly superior in every way but shopping and the costs of setting up a business and the friendliness of waitstaff.
I feel almost exactly the same [1], and I too would love to have a reasoned, non-emotional debate about this with someone to see if I am indeed missing something. But I think lionheart is correct that it's probably not realistic. I think pg gives a good explanation as to why this is the case in [2] and I find this unfortunate. If you can't see any flaws in what you have, how can it be fixed?
[1] Well, actually I'm not convinced setting up a business is that much more expensive if at all. It depends on living expenses. Getting investors is harder, but the trend seems to be going away from investors anyway.
I'm also not convinced on shopping. The selection is obviously better in the U.S. but all the places I've lived in the U.S. seem to have utterly abandoned quality in favor of "cheap". The worst of these for me is the food.
Patriotism is not something you're going to have a reasoned debate on. Also, I upvoted you to "make you whole", and you got downed again. In this case, it's not likely about the quality of your arguments/discussion.
One of the more insightful Overcoming Bias pieces I've read:
"Politics is an extension of war by other means. Arguments are soldiers. Once you know which side you're on, you must support all arguments of that side, and attack all arguments that appear to favor the enemy side; otherwise it's like stabbing your soldiers in the back - providing aid and comfort to the enemy. People who would be level-headed about evenhandedly weighing all sides of an issue in their professional life as scientists, can suddenly turn into slogan-chanting zombies when there's a Blue or Green position on an issue."
I'm an American who has "spent enough time running around the world" to see what a farce this is, and I've settled in a non-US country which is, in my opinion, vastly superior in every way but shopping and the costs of setting up a business and the friendliness of waitstaff.
Come out, masked downvoter.