Can you tell me a bit more on how you use Incus.. is it just personal use, or otherwise? What type of workloads do you run on it, and how is your networking setup / experience?
I use it for professional use, running production services which don't require 99.999 availability and have relatively low traffic, basically some internal dashboards and tools.
I develop my programs as deb/systemd packages and deploy in "fat" ubuntu/debian incus containers.
I have a cluster with three machines where one is used for build-containers and second for production containers. I am looking forward having time to have ZFS streaming incremental backup of the containers.
For big servers I use Proxmox, which is great, but Incus (and IncusOS) feel a bit more futuristic, where Proxmox is more bullet-proof enterprise solution.
