You dont get to decide that lmao. Telling everyone this project doesnt care about security if they ignore my CVE is obviously a demand and your traditions can not change that
> Telling everyone this project doesnt care about security
Google did nothing like this.
If people infer that a hypothetical project doesn't care about security because they didn't fix anything, then they're right. It's not google's fault they're factually bad at security. Making someone look bad is not always a bad action.
Drawing attention to that decision by publicly reporting a bug is not a demand for what the decision will be. I could imagine malicious attention-getting but a bug report isn't it.
If merely publishing a bug they found, and doing nothing else, would qualify by your definition as "telling everyone this project doesn't care about security", then there is absolutely nothing wrong with doing that "telling".
If the FFmpeg team does not want people to file bug reports, then they should close their public issue tracker. This is not something that I decided but a choice that they made.