Fascinating discussion, lots of great points. Seems like much of the modern porn industry is scripted like the floor exercises in a gymnastics event, you have to have moves A, B, C, Etc., and a great dismount. Sort of the porn version of the hero's journey. The comments here suggest the OP might be more effective in her mission if she either illustrated effectively the scripted nature of porn or commissioned specific examples of better? healthier? more loving? sex.