I'm sorry but that experience is still anectodal and doesn't invalidate whatsoever the negative experiences of others. Or you mean to say that just because you talked to females in your close proximity that the reality must be like that for everyone?
Of course it's anectodal. And no, I am not saying that reality is like this for everyone. I am saying that many men, who have not talked to women about these topics, have a false assumption. That there are many women who do not want separate bathrooms or separate taxi drivers, even though they might sometimes feel unsafe with men. Obviously, there are women who will argue for and against.
Which is why giving the option for those who want and need this separation is important. It's also important to take culture into account. In Japan there are separate metro wagons just for women because sexual abuse there is rampant.
