I'm sure you're not talking "soft skills vs. tools", that's a false dichotomy trap - great programmers often excel at both, and tooling mastery can itself develop problem-solving skills that transfer elsewhere.
We are in a better world today specifically because of legendary programmers who invested heavily in tooling, and even created their own from scratch. Prof. Knuth spent decades perfecting typesetting, made TeX/LaTeX, METAFONT, and literate programming tools. Linus built Git and maintains his own terminal emulator and scuba diving log app among many other things. Ken Thompson is famous for building tools to build tools. Rob Pike created text editors, window systems and numerous Unix tools. Carmack built custom level editors and dev tools for each game engine he created, he is known for obsessing over development workflows.
Can you name one person who "blows most other engineers out of the water" while not "being obsessed with tech", using nothing but "the soft skills"?
I dunno about you, I, as a software developer, rather want to be like these guys, and I think any aspiring software dev would. I spent my last weekend figuring out my new WM. Not because I had to, forced to do it, offered money for it, or because I perceive it as my "bottleneck". I don't fetishize over my tools to "get a slight edge". I do it purely out of enjoyment for the process, nothing else.
And I have watched many of my peers going through their career ladders. Sure, many of them might be perceived as more successful because while I was busy "sharpening my sword," they went into "the real world" and "touched grass" and "talked to people." Most of those are no longer doing engineering. If the goal is to "grow out" of being a software engineer, sure, then focus on the tooling might be overrated. That's not for me though; I'm happy where I am.
These famous people you cite are famous because they are "devs for devs". These guys were working on a _product_ (be it LaTex, games, text editors...) for which the user happened to be developers: by improving devx a little they had a lot of impact. That has little to do devs with individually spending a lot of time on their own tooling (for whom improving their devx a little has a little impact).
> Can you name one person who "blows most other engineers out of the water" while not "being obsessed with tech", using nothing but "the soft skills"?
The best engineers I've worked with were comfortable with their tools (of course, that's a requirement) but wouldn't be spending much time on incremental improvements. They'd spend time talking to customers, to PMs, to support, to leadership, learning about their domain and about how other engineers in the industry approached it. They _would_ spend time investing in tools that might be a game-changer (10x or whatever), but not things like vim configs and keyboards.
It always comes down to the same thing: you can have the best tech skills and tooling, yet a (decent) engineer who understand the domain and can communicate effectively will build a better product than you. That's hardly controversial.
> That's not for me though; I'm happy where I am.
I don't agree that it's a question of "growing out of engineering" at all (in fact I'd say it's "growing into" engineering from programming), but at the end of the day I'd totally agree that you should do what makes you happy! If you enjoy what you do and don't want to be doing the other stuff, who cares, I certainly won't be the one to tell you to change your ways!
> The best engineers I've worked with were comfortable with their tools (of course, that's a requirement)
Yeah, that's all what I'm saying.
> but wouldn't be spending much time on incremental improvements.
What is "an incremental improvement"?
My tools change depending on the work I do, and it so happens, the type of tasks I do sometimes change. When I say "working on tools," to me it's like knife sharpening. Sure, it's not impossible to cook with a dull knife, but it's helluva uncomfortable; why just not sharpen it? For me, it's like a chore I can't avoid, the only choice I can make is how to respond to it - and I choose to enjoy it. It takes less than two minutes to sharpen my knife - I have an electric sharpener. It's not tiny, but small enough so I can hold it in my hand, and it's not expensive. I also have regular sharpening stones. That process takes longer. I think I enjoy it, why not; it feels like meditation. But I don't do it every day, or even every week. I think I like how knives feel after.
So basically, I don't even understand what we are arguing about. Some engineers like extending the tools they use. Some, maybe not so much. Some spend a good amount of time doing that. They do it because they love it, and there are mostly benefits.
Some don't sharpen their knives at all - they simply throw them away and buy new set - I just don't know anyone like that in my circles. And similarly, I have never met engineers who never cared about improving their tooling even a little bit.
At the end of the day, we can probably all agree that doing the work without nicely "sharpened" tools is like cooking with a dull knife - it's not impossible; it's just why would anyone do this to themselves? It sounds anguishing.
We are in a better world today specifically because of legendary programmers who invested heavily in tooling, and even created their own from scratch. Prof. Knuth spent decades perfecting typesetting, made TeX/LaTeX, METAFONT, and literate programming tools. Linus built Git and maintains his own terminal emulator and scuba diving log app among many other things. Ken Thompson is famous for building tools to build tools. Rob Pike created text editors, window systems and numerous Unix tools. Carmack built custom level editors and dev tools for each game engine he created, he is known for obsessing over development workflows.
Can you name one person who "blows most other engineers out of the water" while not "being obsessed with tech", using nothing but "the soft skills"?
I dunno about you, I, as a software developer, rather want to be like these guys, and I think any aspiring software dev would. I spent my last weekend figuring out my new WM. Not because I had to, forced to do it, offered money for it, or because I perceive it as my "bottleneck". I don't fetishize over my tools to "get a slight edge". I do it purely out of enjoyment for the process, nothing else.
And I have watched many of my peers going through their career ladders. Sure, many of them might be perceived as more successful because while I was busy "sharpening my sword," they went into "the real world" and "touched grass" and "talked to people." Most of those are no longer doing engineering. If the goal is to "grow out" of being a software engineer, sure, then focus on the tooling might be overrated. That's not for me though; I'm happy where I am.