I think you are getting attached to a "social contract" that never existed, nobody asked you to slave way for no reason and no woman is a walking womb. And in fact, as obvious as it sounds, I have to remind you that you alone have zero capability of civilization building.
It's funny how some men don't see that. And it's funny how that idea changes when they have kids. How many dads are protesting for more paternity leave if it's so easier to spend time raising a child than working? How common is to find a solo father? If it's a "luxury", why women have to take the burden most of the time? If given the option, 99% of men would prefer working outside than being the parent that stays home raising the kids and taking care of the house. It's not a luxury or easier, it's just another type of work. They know it's hard work, they just don't care enough to really think about the topic.
