The Art of the Metaobject Protocol does not seem to go into any detail about senders sending blobs of data to receivers. What do you think it shows, exactly? That you don't need to send blobs of data? That should be obvious by the fact that you can count the number of languages that support that concept on one hand, but does not remove that message passing when employed is necessarily dependent on runtime.
It is not like they are sworn enemies, but as messages can originate from outside the program, they cannot be typed statically. It is impossible to know what types will appear before runtime. For messages that originate from within the same codebase, you can, perhaps, start to layer static typing on top, but it can only be a partial solution as it remains that messages can come from other sources.
You must have a funny definition of distributed computing, then. OO never really caught on, probably because accepting "globs of undefined bytes" is kind of sucky, but we see some examples in the wild. Interface Builder is probably the best example of where we really leaned into OO, orienting a program's UI objects from externally defined messages. I'm not sure what building user interfaces has to do with distributed computing, but... I guess?
> Multiple processes are involved, giving meaning to a byte stream.
Maybe in the case of Erlang, but that's a fairly unique case. Smalltalk[1], and by extension Objective-C, do not pass messages across processes.
Languages don't normally concern themselves with that kind of thing at all. You can build distributed computing on top of languages (pretty much any language), but that's not a trait of the language and way beyond the topic at hand.
[1] Which is what matters most as OO was literally defined by the design of Smalltalk.
Except "The Smalltalk-80 system provides support for multiple independent processes with three classes named Process, ProcessorScheduler, and Semaphore. A Process represents a sequence of actions that can be carried out independently of the actions represented by other Processes."
"Ch. 15 Multiple Independent Processes"
1983 "Smalltalk-80 The Language and its Implementation"