I was referring to childcare. That's just insane and you're being ripped off. That's like buying toothpaste for five hundred dollars per tube, just a solid scam no matter how you flip it. Regarding mortgages, I think that's another discussion.
An alternative that makes sense is that two families share the cost of a nanny for four kids, and the kids can visit at each other's homes. There's always a way when there's a will. But there's never a way if there isn't a will.
