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My father see his college and high schools friends in teashops almost everyday. They just sit, sometimes eat. All come and go. No long term planning. Just phone calls.



Did you possibly reply to the wrong comment?

If not: I don’t think it’s a realistic goal, at least in a typical Western country, for a person with a young family and a full time job to manage to meet up with friends, who are not co-workers, almost every day.


I intended to reply to you. Nope, my parents don't reside in a western country and they all have private businesses and we are relatively well-off.

But even those who are not well-off or business owners will do this.


It all depends on the type of circle. Even within the same city, given the same depth of relationships, distance and the location matter. In a busy asian city, being as little as 15kms apart could result in meeting much less often. In a US small town with excellent roads, little traffic and everyone having cars, the friction is much lesser.

Time for friends is sacrificed first when you need to prioritize work/wife/children etc.




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