But imho (large) group meetups are the least interesting/valuable.
Ideally I would like to boost small or even 1-1 meetups first.
If larger meetups emerge later, great!
There's certainly a customer segment such as yourself who is both:
1. Extroverted(likes meeting new people for the sake of it)
2. Is willing to devote time to this format.
I assume small, but it's there.
You have 2 options:
1. Accept those constraints, find a few more of those type of people, and really focus on exactly what sort of product they want.
2. Try to loosen those constraints. For example, reduce the anxiety of a meet up somehow. Or pick mechanics that make it easier to arrange a meetup (maybe you reduce the scheduling overhead by building an immediate-match Omegle-style product)