No you don't know anyone raised like this. If you give me a comprehensive statement of what they did, I will point out ten ways they hurt their kids. You may say I am wrong on every count, but you won't be able to dispute that what I advocate is different than what was done.
People all the time come up and say they already do the stuff on the TCS website. So far the rate of that being true is exactly zero.
What's this, you say? A novel, ideologically extreme child rearing philosophy that's so rarely applied that I couldn't conceivably know someone raised under it? Sold!
Your attitude would reject all new ideas about parenting without any regard for their merit.
The reason the things I'm advocating are especially worth consideration is that they are in line with long standing traditions our society already places very high value on, such as individual freedom and happiness, and control over one's own life.
No, in fact most new ideas about parenting are not ideologically extreme. Uncomfortable, perhaps --- like attachment parenting, which put our kids in our bed for a year --- but not extreme.
People all the time come up and say they already do the stuff on the TCS website. So far the rate of that being true is exactly zero.
PS I do not like psychologists.