That's not what it is about. If someone calls you "non-standard", you challenge them to identify these standards. If you call me wrong, at least give it hands and feets.

> If you call me wrong, at least give it hands and feets.

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Sorry, couldn't help myself. There's an obscure Polish joke it made me think of (punchline being, thankfully you didn't ask for it to "hold its shit together").