I don't even know if I'm neurodivergent, but apps that optimistically indicate success instead of using spinners give me a ton of anxiety. I see that in my wife and other family members, too. Even looking at something that explicitly says "Your order has been placed!" leaves people in a state of nervous suspense until we find a text message or an email to verify. In the absence of that, they just don't know. Part of my techie privilege is that I know a page refresh can usually reveal the truth.
> Even looking at something that explicitly says "Your order has been placed!" leaves people in a state of nervous suspense until we find a text message or an email to verify.
This. Also true for both my wife and me. One of the worst offenders here are contact forms - it's increasingly rare you get any copy or confirmation via e-mail that your message was actually recorded, so once you submit the form and see a success page, you really can't be sure if your message was delivered, or even if it left your browser in the first place. Takes one little JavaScript fuckup for the message to be lost, and your only indication may be an error message in development console.
Related, at one of my previous employer's, there were some documents I was interested in that had restricted access; when trying to open them, I'd get an access request form asking me to provide a reason. I filled it several times over couple of months, but never got any reply. Then one day, I mentioned it randomly to my boss, to which he told me that this form just goes straight to /dev/null...
