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>changing your profile picture to a model in a dating app, you are going to get responses but what are you going to do with them if there is no real match?

I may be a cynic, and I haven't tried this myself, but I would hazard a guess that doing this could boost a typical straight male's number of matches from none to a dozen a day. With that quantity of chats started, you can then experiment with various responses like "I don't really look like a model, but I identify as one" until you find someone receptive, with the benefit of loss aversion/sunk cost of her having already started a conversation with you.

Instead of the filter being the "match" both sides can then decide based on actually conversing.




I don't think the dating world maps that well to the job search world in that aspect. The only similarity between the two is I think high volume is a good idea. Playing the field.

I think you market yourself entirely different in both though. Job hunt you need to seriously talk yourself up, dating expects more subtlety and humbleness while selling yourself (well I guess depending on the kind of people you're trying to date).

Imo the strategy you're speculating on would never succeed because more than anything it would demonstrate lack of confidence.


Eventually you find a partner who has also changed their profile picture to a model, likes piña coladas, and getting caught in the rain.


Yeah, that works, because it turns out you were already in a long term relationship with that person.




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