Jeeze, I can't imagine why women feel so alienated from the tech industry.
It's almost as if any time some sort of way to make computers more human-like emerges, the first thing a subset of the men in the space do is think "How can I use this to make a woman who has absolutely no function other than my emotional, practical, and physical gratification?"
Humans in desiring deep emotional and sexual connections with people of their desired gender and being driven to weird behaviours when they can't achieve it in the way you personally approve of shock
Then work on it. Ask friends for feedback. Go to therapy. Have some damned introspection instead of just reducing 51% of the people on the planet to a bangmaid.