I have been using the self-hosted ActualBudget for ~6 months and found it mostly perfect. The mobile version of the site is not complete but it's at least usable for managing transactions. The only drawback is no user accounts, but you can have multiple budgets.
I was originally on YNAB4, and then financier.io for ~2 years.
I was originally on YNAB4, and then financier.io for ~2 years.