My experience is 10 years old now (I met my wife on OKC then), but at the time I was getting plenty of mutual matches and actually had enough women contacting me that I never initiated contact. I wouldn’t say I’m a 10/10, but definitely on the luckier side where it comes to traits attractive to women. I was also in my mid- to late-20s at the time, which I still feel like is the peak dating app age range.