Ask your female friends to show you their tinder or hinge apps.
Take a look at what most men's profiles look like.
It is shocking, funny, and a little bit sad. At least it was for me. Maybe it's because I live in a big city? Idk.
Tons of mirror selfies, car selfies, low quality photos, weird forced smiles (no offense - smiles can be improved), red flag prompts, etc.
That's most profiles.. the next percentile is average looking guys with no "edge" to make them standout. Super cliche. Why should she swipe right in this guy? Yeah, he might be nice and safe. But he's exactly the same as the other 1000 guys that have this profile.
>Tons of mirror selfies, car selfies, low quality photos, weird forced smiles (no offense - smiles can be improved), red flag prompts, etc.
No lie as a man I honestly feel like I see the same
95% of women's profiles don't even have a bio, just a link to their IG or Snapchat and the profile pics are all very similar (you ever see a woman take a pic in front of graffiti/neon wings?)
I've seen men's profiles and I know they tend worse, but in my experience it's not by much
Maybe because a lot of men will swipe on a woman's profile if her first pic is a gym or bikini or nightclub pic regardless of whether she puts a bio or anything personal into it? It's why I use Hinge/Bumble over Tinder anyway, but even then getting interesting personal info from a profile is difficult
>But he's exactly the same as the other 1000 guys that have this profile.
Tbh this is how I feel alright, I'm just 1 of 1000 guys in the DMs, why bother putting in more effort for the same result
damn im jaded with dating apps D: to be 100% clear tho i'm not saying men or women have it worse or men or women are bad/evil/etc. no misogyny or misandry here
Do you ever wonder if your experiences are just not reflective of the majority?
Could be they make all the right moves and still lose, it happens more than people are willing to admit I think