Unless you are a male sex worker or in some kind of niche hookup community, it's a scam. Even on a dating site, it's probably a scam unless you are exceptionally attractive.
Women like sex, just as much as men (if not more so). Sure not every popup about “hot singles in your area” is legit, but women on dating sites messaging you with the goal of a quick night is definitely a thing. And I’m certainly not exceptionally attractive.
