Google gets paid when you click on an ad. It's reasonable to guess you're not going to click on too many scam software ads with your software engineer profile. So naturally you'll be showed less of them.
In this thread we can see people both using incognito tabs seeing different results, it will only become worse to compare if they are using personalized results.
In this thread we can see people both using incognito tabs seeing different results, it will only become worse to compare if they are using personalized results.