Yours will not/did not click or grind because it is not being used. You owned effectively a rear wheel drive truck with a switch/lever to make it 4x4. 99.9% of the time those trucks are in RWD mode, which means your cv shaft is not being used. It just free spins at most, transmitting no torque.
How long can it last like that? Basically forever.
How long do unsealed CV joints usually last?
(At the time, I didn't have access to a garage, so it was more than I wanted to repair at home)