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Scenario #2:

You and your wife have a big argument. She storms out of the house, and says either:

A. "I'm going to go hang out and watch a movie alone with Dave."

B. "I'm going to go hang out and watch a movie alone with Sally."

Still, no difference?

I get that people can be open-minded and trusting, but I think there are some basic things that most people just don't do. And those things have everything to do with the underlying assumptions about the relationship between a man and a woman.

Sure, there are exceptions. But in general, there are more problems with platonic opposite sex friendships than same sex, and I think there always will be because of the scenarios I've mentioned.




No difference.

A. Fights happen. And they're very very different than a divorce. We're not together just for sex, or just because we never fight.

B. I trust my wife.

C. We've had fights, she's gone to male friends to cool off. They have helped.

What, don't you trust your friends? (edit: of which a wife should be one)




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