Pointing out that you're stepping on toes is not emotional blackmail.
Emotional blackmail is either direct:
“If you hang out with your buddies tonight, I will pack my bags and leave you.”
or indirect:
“I don't even spend time with my friends because I want to spend more time with you."
What Jobs is doing is pointing out a fact.
That it hurts you this much informs me more of your developmental attitude than it does about Jobs being an asshole. Which he was, but not for this.
Pointing out that you're stepping on toes is not emotional blackmail.
Emotional blackmail is either direct:
“If you hang out with your buddies tonight, I will pack my bags and leave you.”
or indirect:
“I don't even spend time with my friends because I want to spend more time with you."
What Jobs is doing is pointing out a fact.
That it hurts you this much informs me more of your developmental attitude than it does about Jobs being an asshole. Which he was, but not for this.