> Knowing the wrong people doesn’t make you a loser. You should rethink your wording or qualify loser with “losing the chance to get hired at a certain place”.
You are misreading ozim.
The claim is not that people without connections are losers. The claim is that people who often make the accusation of nepotism generally are losers.
In other words, untalented people will make the accusation of nepotism as ego defense to avoid confronting their own lack of skill.
its funny how mostly true this is if you take the converse. i have very rarely seen smart/successful people complain about others. they focus on themselves
You are misreading ozim.
The claim is not that people without connections are losers. The claim is that people who often make the accusation of nepotism generally are losers.
In other words, untalented people will make the accusation of nepotism as ego defense to avoid confronting their own lack of skill.