Think of it like this: you are at a professional setting and being introduced in front of an audience. These points are made about you while you stand by and the audience watches you:
1. grannyg00se is a great person to work with
2. grannyg00se has a keen understanding and knowledge of the industry
3. grannyg00se brings a lot to the table and is a valued member of their team
You stand there and maybe blush a little, proud. Then,
4. grannyg00se was a really sexy single and just got married and is still sexy.
How is that relevant to the audience? If you are a guy and everyone in the audience is a guy, maybe that's some kind of frat behaviour that gets a laugh out of everyone. But if you are a women on that stage suddenly you are subject to intense pressure: be good at your job and be sexy because your female and the being good at your job isn't enough.
It's complex and it's hard to really explain how it feels but I've been in situations like this. It's just really uncomfortable even when you know it's not meant in bad faith, that maybe some guy in the audience is objectifying you and no longer paying attention to what you are contributing outside of being pretty to look at.
1. grannyg00se is a great person to work with 2. grannyg00se has a keen understanding and knowledge of the industry 3. grannyg00se brings a lot to the table and is a valued member of their team
You stand there and maybe blush a little, proud. Then,
4. grannyg00se was a really sexy single and just got married and is still sexy.
How is that relevant to the audience? If you are a guy and everyone in the audience is a guy, maybe that's some kind of frat behaviour that gets a laugh out of everyone. But if you are a women on that stage suddenly you are subject to intense pressure: be good at your job and be sexy because your female and the being good at your job isn't enough.
It's complex and it's hard to really explain how it feels but I've been in situations like this. It's just really uncomfortable even when you know it's not meant in bad faith, that maybe some guy in the audience is objectifying you and no longer paying attention to what you are contributing outside of being pretty to look at.