I agree. For a country of patriots, the US has 0% of inner unity. To each their own is what most Americans seem to live by, and I’m sure 9/11 was the first and last time the country United.
Ah, thanks for pointing that out. It sounds super cheesy but I miss common space where people play / mingle / relax / drink. Like a freaking plaza with table and chair and benches.
Those exists of course, just further far and between.
It’s counter intuitive because folk from the US are incredibly friendly and open. Super easy to talk to.