That is absolutely absurd that you have built something many have tried and failed to do with millions of dollars of venture capital behind them, all on your own.

Genuine kudos to you, you should be an inspiration to any indie hacker.

Part of the problem with venture funding is 10m arr wouldn't be considered enough.

Totally. But regardless lots of ideas get funded that turn out not to be "venture scale" and many at an early stage that do not even get to $10m ARR.