In my family we like arguing about things. Our way of doing so is quite animated and enthusiastic. We're trying to get our point heard of course but the real pleasure is perhaps that it is a fight in the sense of a water pistol fight or a game of rugby or something like that. It's mental exercise with excitement and humor.
It doesn't suit everyone and might seem alarming. Also we sort of play the game with the underlying attitude that it is all unimportant and that we admire and like each other.
The mind changing never happens then but sometimes it happens a few days later.
I HATE changing my mind but usually after I have I'm glad I did it. It's very uncomfortable but to say that nothing can change what I think would be to admit that I wasn't thinking anymore. It would be awful to be like that.
It doesn't suit everyone and might seem alarming. Also we sort of play the game with the underlying attitude that it is all unimportant and that we admire and like each other.
The mind changing never happens then but sometimes it happens a few days later.
I HATE changing my mind but usually after I have I'm glad I did it. It's very uncomfortable but to say that nothing can change what I think would be to admit that I wasn't thinking anymore. It would be awful to be like that.