You mean the few extra megabytes of RAM for some extra compiled code on each node?
If you refer to databases: Splitting one service into two services can at most give you a 2x scale-up potential (usually a lot less), and the effect diminishes for 3th, 4th service. Mathematically and logically. Splitting services = vertical scaling.
If you want 100x, 1000x scaling you need to invest in true horizontal scaling anyway, and that works pretty much the same way for monoliths as microservices.
> You mean the few extra megabytes of RAM for some extra compiled code on each node?
Few extra?
Have you not considered applications where you need to spin up/down _extremely_ resource intensive instances?
A year++ ago I worked on a health-related application which used a system for processing X-ray images. During typical work hour (6 am-6 pm) it required a _huge_ amount of CPU and RAM instances. By shifting those specific services out to specialised instanced, we saw a $50K/month saving.
The rest of the application is a lot more lightweight, but of course has to run 24/7, but being able to spin up/down required instances, and just pay for what you use, is a huge benefit for a lot of companies and organisations.
A monolith is not a giant blob that has to run fully on one instance or else nothing works. Although I'm sure plenty of horrible enterprise software works that way, it is not a property of a monolith.
I maintain a SaaS written as a monolith and I can absolutely spin instances that only load one part of the code and do a single thing, for example some instances only handle MQTT messages while others only serve HTTP endpoints. That does not make it microservices, it is all one code base sharing one database.
If you refer to databases: Splitting one service into two services can at most give you a 2x scale-up potential (usually a lot less), and the effect diminishes for 3th, 4th service. Mathematically and logically. Splitting services = vertical scaling.
If you want 100x, 1000x scaling you need to invest in true horizontal scaling anyway, and that works pretty much the same way for monoliths as microservices.