"tough to learn outside of school and much older."
Be very careful with this way of thinking. People around me have used it to justify not taking the time to learn something as far as I can remember. In short, giving up before they try. This attitude will hinder any possible growth. I guarantee it.
What's tough is following thru, not the subject you are trying to learn. If you can't learn on your own take a class at a local college. It will force you to show up and try. But thinking that you can't learn because you are older is not true.
Obviously I've not looked at all of them but my main problem (especially with language books) is that there are so few good materials to learn from in self-study. Everything is "supporting the class room", or has some ridiculous split into (bad) contents and (worse) exercises that more often than not are the classic "draw three circles.. draw the rest of the owl".
And yes, people usually go on to recommend some vague resource that helped them understand just enough if they were starting from a decent problem already. (IMHO a good example here is vector math. If you do some stuff with 3d and games the problems are clear and most people will start from there and then learn enough to understand it. But just learning it in isolation is where people complain).
Be very careful with this way of thinking. People around me have used it to justify not taking the time to learn something as far as I can remember. In short, giving up before they try. This attitude will hinder any possible growth. I guarantee it.
What's tough is following thru, not the subject you are trying to learn. If you can't learn on your own take a class at a local college. It will force you to show up and try. But thinking that you can't learn because you are older is not true.