We can assume he's selecting one of his children at random, and revealing their birthday and gender.
This is the entire point of the article, IMO: we have to make some assumption about how we selected this guy to talk to, and how he chose what to tell us. It's not pinned down by the statement of the problem, and what you might consider a natural assumption is not necessarily what other people might assume.
I definitely agree - I hate problems like this, because the difficulty is caused by ambiguity of English, not the problem itself.
But even given other assumptions as to why the father selects the child he does - sort by date, males first etc, the author's answer of 13/27 is still almost certainly wrong - he should have just taken the father out of the equation completely.
I don't think this has anything to do with the ambiguity of language or English. It does, however, like the Monty Hall problem, require you to make assumptions about how/why a speaker presents certain information.
Think of it like this. What would the father say if he did in fact have two boys who were both born on Tuesday. Would he really say, "I have two children and one is a son born on a Tuesday"? Wouldn't he instead say, "I have two children and both are sons born on a Tuesday."?
I mean he could say it the first way, but such a comment would be borderline misleading. To say you have one son born on Tuesday when in fact you have two is technically correct, but I think the problem assumes that the man is speaking somewhat plainly.
So I do agree with you that communication intent is ambiguous, but I agree with some others that this is sort of the whole point of the problem, and it's not always immediately obvious that statistical information is hiding in seemingly irrelevant data.
This is the entire point of the article, IMO: we have to make some assumption about how we selected this guy to talk to, and how he chose what to tell us. It's not pinned down by the statement of the problem, and what you might consider a natural assumption is not necessarily what other people might assume.
Which is why these problems tend to suck...