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I apologize for my defensiveness - I thought that the second sentence was a snarky remark directed towards me.

How did you manage to get the 6 years old to finally sleep alone? Did it happen by itself or did you have to do something about it?




Understandable, I was editing that part to soften it a bit before I even saw your reply.

6 year old is currently in that state. Again, even daring to admit something like that invites commentary from other parents how we did it wrong. Maybe so, but his mother is also a highly anxious person who could not handle letting a child be upset without comforting him. I also have a 12 year old who sleeps fine on her own now but was similar to about the same age.

So again, I don't see a way to be a parent other than intuition coupled with openmindedness, and that undoubtedly our own limitations or neuroses will end up affecting our children somehow (to the extent we don't or can't work on ourselves). It's somewhat of a tragic or at least deeply humbling experience.




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