> everyone’s naked under their clothes and it’s no big deal
Until the day you render human biological urges inconsequential to the one experiencing them, all that phrase adds up to is the kind of line a teenage boy uses to get his girlfriend's clothes off.
I can think of vastly more humiliating things, like a video of a woman spreading antivax or pro-choice propaganda. And, differently from a blowjob, which is just a religiously motivated prejudice, those acts are actually harmful and evil.
Oh and most grownups have consensual sex occasionally. Shocker!
And they drink too :O
Sometimes even break minor laws!!