I don't think it helps to be located outside the problematic jurisdiction - as soon as you sell your products there, you are once again subject to the laws you're trying to avoid. Avoiding the United States as a market is probably more costly than just putting up with the "patent tax".
It's not possible with hard goods, but with services, it looks like the way to go.
If my company and my servers are based on someplace sane, it's not that I am exporting it to you, who lives in a crazy place, but it's you who are importing it from me.
I don't think it's quite so clear-cut. If you're selling downloadable apps (like mobile or desktop apps) you're almost certainly liable. What about the JavaScript code you're "exporting" to your users? That runs in their jurisdiction.