I really appreciated how candid this article was, but I don't find it very applicable to me.
> I'm not going to let my fear of failure drive my decisions next time around. If we fail, we fail. A startup failure won't affect how my family sees me, how my friends see me, or how my girlfriend sees me. And I'm never again going to let the possibility of failure affect how I see myself.
I feel like this is a lot easier to say after having a success, especially if that success put some money in the bank. Having a healthy fear of business failure is a good thing, as it allows you to see the potential negative outcomes. It's the fear of failure in life that negatively affects decision-making, and it seems unreasonable to expect someone with no history of success and no comfortable safety net to avoid succumbing to that.
Fear of failure, though, can become fear of success -- which, when you think about it, is nothing more than fear of failing harder at the next level. There is a difference between prudence and paralysis, between taking reasonable risks and recklessness. And sometimes it's really hard to tell the difference between a comfort zone and a rut when you're in one.
> I'm not going to let my fear of failure drive my decisions next time around. If we fail, we fail. A startup failure won't affect how my family sees me, how my friends see me, or how my girlfriend sees me. And I'm never again going to let the possibility of failure affect how I see myself.
I feel like this is a lot easier to say after having a success, especially if that success put some money in the bank. Having a healthy fear of business failure is a good thing, as it allows you to see the potential negative outcomes. It's the fear of failure in life that negatively affects decision-making, and it seems unreasonable to expect someone with no history of success and no comfortable safety net to avoid succumbing to that.