What I said doesn't invalidate women's experiences. I was highlighting that men have to pay for said shitty experience, and the system is designed that way intentionally. The heavy TOS is because men and women act out because of that shitty system. It's a cycle.
I didn't take it as fighting, so I'm not sure what the hostility is about. I was making clear that by highlighting men's experiences I am in no way invalidating women's experiences. That and putting some emphasis on the fact that shitty systems result in shitty TOS.
> Maybe it's not all Tinder's fault you're not having much luck.
