That's probably a good idea. If you want social media, go to the local mom and pop social medium in town here. Their artisanal activity feed is the best!

More seriously, at this point the options are:

    - ethically-challenged social media full of relatives and friends
    - unintuitive federated platform with no family but plenty of otherkin furfriends
    - being left out of conversation and events you care about

I can't say to most people that choice 1 is excluded without being written off as unrealistic.