What cryptocurrencies and payment processing software do you recommend for directly accepting payments from customers?
Is there an industry standard for this (or a de facto standard thereof)?
(These funds will be used to pay for business expenses that that can be settled with cryptocurrency. We do not intend to convert to traditional currency unless needed. We do not intend to hold cryptocurrency as an investment.)
The bigger issues I had that I am skeptical any self-hosted options have is protecting your wallets from being poisoned by 'black' bitcoin. Coinbase (and maybe others?) keeps a blacklist of banned wallets (stolen or associated with crime or gambling[0]). If a customer pays you from a black address, you may end up poisoning your entire crypto wallet and get flagged when you try to cash out.
[0] - https://www.reddit.com/r/onlinegambling/comments/kpel7x/so_i...